Monday, November 29, 2010

Time is a Funny Thing

It's hard to believe how fast the days and weeks and months go by. It seems like only a short time ago that the Police arrested my husband, but it has been nearly 6 months already - that is almost 1/2 a year...

The kids and I are doing okay on our own. We have had to learn new ways of doing things, since we are no longer bound by abuse, manipulation, power and control. We have a much quieter house, with FAR less yelling and anger. Yes, we all have our days; guess that makes us normal.

In regards to the case, my on-the-path-to-ex husband is only allowed supervised visits with our children and one phone call a week. He is not allowed communication with me unless it is in front of a Judge. The kids and I still don't have our family vehicle, which is the most frustrating issue right now. The husband doesn't even have a driver's license, but somehow, in his warped mind, thinks it is okay to deprive his children of transportation, even in the cold and snow. Figure that one out. Guess we'll see what the Judge says about that next week when we meet again.

I will honestly try to keep up with this blog. For a long time I was too emotional and messed up to even write. Now, however, I have a much better grasp and am able to process things and move on. I owe most of the credit to my best friend ever, Adam. He has been such a major support to me during this time, and I couldn't do it without him!

Hope to hear from you all soon. I am going to check out your blogs and see what has been going on in your life!

LOVE!